Welcome to Tantric Touch. My name is Pearl and I am a tantra massage therapist in Toronto, combining sexual, shamanic and emotional healing techniques.
Being part of the Toronto Tantra Community for over a decade now I am often asked what tantra massage is and the therapeutic and healing effects it has.
Tantra massage offers profound spiritual and energetic benefits by fostering deep self-awareness, balancing energy centers, and releasing blockages to enhance the flow of life force energy.
Our sexual energy is powerful!
Sexual energy is a potent and concentrated form of life force energy. In many spiritual and philosophical traditions, such as Tantra and Taoism, sexual energy (often referred to as kundalini or chi) is seen as the creative essence of life itself.
Tantric touch promotes integration of mind, body, and spirit, encouraging mindfulness, emotional healing, and a connection to higher consciousness. Through its sacred and transformative practice, tantra massage can awaken vitality, expand awareness, and cultivate a profound sense of wholeness and inner harmony.
Did you know?
The concept of life force energy is a significant element in many cultures, philosophies, and spiritual traditions around the world. Terms like prana (Hinduism), chi or qi (Chinese philosophy), ki (Japanese traditions), and élan vital (philosophical vitalism) all point to an unseen energy believed to animate and sustain life.
What exactly is Tantra Massage?
Tantra massage (or Tantric massage as it is also known) is a slow, connecting massage that helps with:
- Stress release
- Emotional opening and connection
- Experiencing joy and pleasure
- Regaining self-confidence and self-love
- Clearing energetic blockages in the body by releasing life-force (kundalini) energy
Deep breathing and meditation exercises help slow the pace and integrate the experience. The connecting exercises at the beginning deepen the connection between the practitioner and client, and the client with themselves. The touch becomes enhanced after the somatic and energetic channels are opened in the body and the kundalini energy rises. According to tantric sexuality teachings, the more pleasure you feel, the more life-force is moving in your body. This life-force is just that: the energy you need to feel joy and contentment in your life.
Tantra massage is an erotic massage for men, women or couples. It combines elements of bioenergetics, sexual therapy and counselling. As a tantra therapist I facilitate the bridge between the spiritual and sexual through breathing exercises, meditations, connection exercises and touch.
My sessions – Tantra Therapy
I believe there is no magic pill when it comes to sexual healing. My tantra therapy sessions are a co-creation between the client and myself. We begin with a consultation/counselling segment where we talk about the client’s history, fears, desires, boundaries and goals, and where we come up with the outline of the session. My experience is that individuals need different amounts of breathing, meditation, counselling and other tools, depending on their goals and comfort level, hence the need to tailor them individually.
After the consultation, we move onto the tantra massage session, where the client receives and surrenders to the feeling of relaxation and well-being. I am constantly communicating and asking questions about intensity of pressure, length of touch, different sensitive areas to be touched or not touched at all. I find that trust increases with the amount of attention I give clients. Clients feel safe and respected during my slow, connecting tantra massages. We finish with a short debrief session and look at next steps.
Variations of the Tantra Massage I offer
The Tantra Massage is a slow, relaxing erotic massage, with optional release, where I wear black leggings and a black top.
The Skyclad Tantra massage
I am naked, and there is more skin-to-skin touch. Touch is one-way, meaning that the client doesn’t touch the practitioner.
The Skyclad Tantra Massage with two-way touch
The client can touch the practitioner too.
The Skyclad, four-handed massage is a Tantra Massage where two practitioners massage the clients. Usually, we start at the opposite sides of the body and then move up the body together, sweeping, kneading and deep-massaging the body. The release is optional at the end.
Sacred Spot (Prostate Massage) helps release trauma in a man’s body that may have been carried for his whole life. This service is given with the utmost care and respect. I begin with a regular relaxing tantric massage then proceed to the prostate only when the customer is ready and at a pace that is comfortable to them.